You should let Alex Lahey’s new single, “They Wouldn’t Let Me In,” in right now.

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Today, Alex Lahey presents her new single/video, “They Wouldn’t Let Me In,” from her forthcoming albumThe Answer Is Always Yes, out May 19th on Liberation. Following the “big, bright” (Stereogum) lead single, “Good Time,” the previously-shared “Shit Talkin’,” plus the “volcanic and cathartic” (The New York Times) “Congratulations,” “They Wouldn’t Let Me In” is Lahey’s first song to mine the depths of her queer teenage years. Where Lahey’s beloved debut I Love You Like A Brother and its 2019 follow-up The Best of Luck Club took their focus through the lens of relationships, The Answer Is Always Yes sees Lahey analyzing her otherness through different lenses, from its isolating effect to the surrealism and humor it instills. The “They Wouldn’t Let Me In” video, co-directed by Lahey and Claire Giuffre, is a lighthearted accompaniment to the reflective track. Lahey draws out the absurdity, assuming the role of a furniture salesperson and leading a humorous countdown: “I couldn’t get into the threesome, the foursome, the fivesome, the sixsome.

“After watching the brilliant tv series ‘Heartstopper,’ I spent a lot of time thinking about my own experiences growing up as a queer teenager,” Lahey says. “Although I was extremely lucky that the majority of my experience was filled with joy, acceptance and love, it wasn’t always smooth sailing. This song is inspired by those tougher moments – not being allowed to attend my high school girlfriend’s school formal, being excluded from conventional romantic rites of passage, moments of isolation and feeling like I couldn’t relate to anyone around me. ‘They Wouldn’t Let Me In’ is by far the most direct song I’ve ever written about this time.”

 
Watch Alex Lahey’s “They Wouldn’t Let Me In” Video
 

As a queer person, Alex Lahey learned how to adapt to a world that wasn’t made for her. For those who exist on the fringe, you learn to pave your own way, foster your own community, and create your own joy. With The Answer Is Always Yes, Lahey examines how she finds comfort in the discomfort, whether its reveling in absurdity or turning towards exploration. “Living in a world that wasn’t made for you makes you pretty strong and adaptive, and you find the fun in it,” says Lahey. “It also makes you realize how absurd everything is. With The Answer Is Always Yes, I wanted to get weird because the world is weird, and it’s even weirder when you realize you don’t fit into it all the time.”

Just as Lahey learned to reimagine the world around her, the music of The Answer Is Always Yes is also the product of reimagination. After making a name for herself with heartfelt, witty, and energizing indie rock songs, Lahey felt she had accrued tried and true songwriting tricks. Instead of resting on her laurels, Lahey took a risk by inviting other writers and producers into the early stages of her creative process for the first time. The resulting album is not only Lahey’s most collaborative yet, but also her most dynamic and surprising.

Beginning May 19th, Alex Lahey will embark on a North American tour in support of The Answer Is Always Yes, bringing her captivating full-band performance to a slew of cities across the continent. Full dates are listed below and tickets are on sale now.

 
Pre-order The Answer Is Always Yes
 
Watch“Good Time” Video
Watch “Congratulations” video
Watch “Shit Talkin’” lyric video
 
Alex Lahey Tour Dates:
Fri. May 19 – Santa Ana, CA @ Constellation Room
Sat. May 20 – Los Angeles, CA @ Zebulon
Sun. May 21 – San Francisco, CA @ Bottom of the Hill
Tue. May 23 – Portland, OR @ Polaris Hall
Wed. May 24 – Seattle, WA @ Madame Lous
Fri. May 26 – Salt Lake City, UT @ Kilby Court
Sat. May 27 – Denver, CO @ Lost Lake
Tue. May 30 – Minneapolis, MN @ 7th Street entry
Wed. May 31 – Chicago, IL @ Schubas
Fri. June 2 – Columbus, OH @ Ace of Cups
Sat. June 3 – Cleveland, OH @ Mahalls
Sun. June 4 – Toronto, ON @ Velvet Underground
Tue. June 6 – Boston, MA @ Crystal Ballroom
Wed. June 7 – New York, NY @ Baby’s All Right
Fri. June 9 – Philadelphia, PA @ Johnny Brendas
Sun. June 11 – Washington, DC @ Songbyrd
Mon. June 12 – Durham, NC @ Motorco Music Hall
Tue. June 13 – Atlanta, GA @ Masquerade Purgatory
Thu. June 15 – Houston, TX @ White Oak Music Hall Upstairs
Fri. June 16 – Austin, TX @ Parish
Sat. June 17 – Dallas, TX @ Club Dada
Tue. June 20 – Phoenix, AZ @ Rebel Lounge
Wed. June 21 – San Diego, CA @ Soda Bar

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